Kyle Singler, the former Duke basketball standout and NBA player, has drawn an outpouring of support from across the basketball community after sharing a pair of alarming videos on Instagram on Tuesday. Singler, 36, expressed his struggles and fears, prompting concern from fans and peers alike.
In a video posted on Tuesday morning, Singler spoke candidly about the fear and emotional pain he experiences on a daily basis.
“Every day, s–t is being thrown my way,” Singler said. “I have been mistreated and abused, neglected, made into a mental example. And I fear for my life every day. People in my community make me look out as if I’m going to be someone that’s going to be a problem and make things difficult for people when I’m only trying to be helpful.”
Singler went on to describe how he feels unvalued and misunderstood, despite the strength and purpose he believes he brings to his life and the lives of others. “I feel like I have a certain way about myself, a strength and purpose that does not get valued or treated properly,” he added.
In a second video, which he posted on Tuesday afternoon, Singler continued to express similar grievances, elaborating on the challenges he faces with his mental health and his struggles to find acceptance and understanding within his community.
The videos quickly garnered attention, and several high-profile figures from the basketball world reached out to offer their support. Miami Heat forward Kevin Love, who has been vocal about his own battles with mental health, was among the first to publicly respond to Singler’s cry for help.
Love, who was once a high school rival of Singler, commented on the post, saying, “I love you, Kyle. Hit me whenever.”
Later, Love took to X (formerly Twitter), to encourage others to show Singler the support he desperately needs. “Shower Kyle with the love and support he needs,” Love wrote. “I would not be who I am today without him. I am forever indebted and love him. To the NBA family, Duke BB family, & South Medford community—let’s show up for one of our own.”
The connection between Love and Singler goes back to their teenage years, when they often faced off on the high school basketball court. Their rivalry eventually turned into mutual respect, and Love’s response to Singler’s videos underscored the bond they still share.
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Other NBA players also stepped up to offer words of encouragement. Former Boston Celtics star Isaiah Thomas wrote, “Here for you bro! Always and forever,” while Philadelphia 76ers center Andre Drummond added, “You aren’t alone brother! I’m here for you.” The supportive messages highlighted the solidarity within the basketball community when one of their own is struggling.
Kyle Singler was once one of the brightest stars in college basketball. After a stellar high school career, Singler attended Duke University, where he played for four years and became a legendary figure for the Blue Devils.
During his junior year, he helped lead Duke to a national championship in 2010, earning the NCAA Tournament’s Most Outstanding Player award for his efforts.
After graduating from Duke, Singler entered the NBA, where he played from 2012 to 2018. He began his career with the Detroit Pistons before moving on to the Oklahoma City Thunder.
Known for his hustle and versatility, Singler carved out a role as a solid contributor during his time in the league. Following his NBA career, Singler played professionally in Europe before ultimately retiring from basketball in 2019.
While his career took him to many different places, it is clear that Singler has been facing personal battles behind the scenes. The messages of support from fellow players and the larger basketball community reflect the respect and admiration people have for Singler, both as a player and as a person.
Mental health challenges have become an increasingly important topic in the sports world, and Kevin Love has been at the forefront of advocating for open dialogue and support. By reaching out to Singler, Love demonstrated once again the importance of athletes supporting one another through difficult times.
As Kyle Singler navigates this challenging chapter, the hope is that the support he has received will help him find the strength and resources he needs.
The basketball community has shown that it stands with him, and as Love said, it’s time to show up for one of their own.
Singler’s honesty and vulnerability serve as a reminder that even those who seem strong on the outside can struggle on the inside, and it is crucial that they receive the compassion and help they need.
